I am expecting an offer from "Job  #2" today, but am still waiting for a second interview with "Job #1". (The second interview for Job #1 is scheduled for next week.  Two of the three interviewers for Job #2 have said they'd like me... so I'm just waiting on the third's opinion of me.)   IF I receive an offer from #2 today, how do I professionally let them know that I would like some time to make a decision, and await the results of Job #1?

I've never been in the position of wanting to work at two different companies before!  Of course, there are reasons why #1 is #1!  But, my savings is running low and I don't want to miss the boat.. but being a "job hopper" is definitely worse!  I value my professional reputation and being a loyal employee!

So, how long is acceptable to ask an employer to wait for your response?!  2 days, 3 days...a week?!

Thanks!

You need to reverse it and ask them when they need answer, then give one by that time. 

 

Tess

Ah, so simple!  Excellent!  (Amazing what a little stress and a missed meal can do!)

What you should say is, "I'd like a few days to consider your offer, but when would like a definitive answer from me?"  Whatever they tell you, you should live with.  In other words, make it clear that you'd appreciate a little time to think about the offer, but that you want to live within their time-frame.  Make sense? 

Paul W. Barada

The Negotiation Expert