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accept then reject


I am a graduate student planning to be finished around September. Last year I went through a lengthy application process for a federal government recruitment program (for a specific Ministry) but in January finally heard back that I was rejected and put on the list for future openings. This week they sent me an offer, and I have a week to accept or reject. The start date, however, could be as far as next January (my preference).

Circumstances have changed and I am now less enthusiastic about accepting, but don't want to eliminate the option entirely. I'm wondering if it would be out of line to accept now with the notion that I might, sometime before the start date, change my mind and pull out. I know accepting then rejecting is normally totally unacceptable, but I am considering it because the offer is for a program rather than a specific job posting, and the start date is so far away. They accept some 40 people a year, with more on a waiting list. Its basically a fast-track program with three rotational assignments over 2 years (the first of which I have no say over being assigned to), and I doubt that they would have me pegged me a speciffic task more than a few months in advance.

Having said that, I really don't want to burn any bridges, since I may in the future decide I want to work there, or in a related government department (they undoubtedtly share records), and don't want a black mark to my name.

I am in a high-demand field, my skills are quite valuable and it is likely that I will be able to find interesting work quickly after I graduate. Nevertheless its hard not to be a little clingy to such an opportunity (I've been unemployed before and its not fun). And the recruitment program route does offer certain benefits over a normal entry (fulltime permanent status, mentoring and training opportunities).

Opinions and advice?

Thanks.

K

You can't have it all.  You can't accept, then reject, then still have them think kindly of you, yada, yada.

You need to make some decisions about what you want to do and then stick with them. 

 

Tess

I think you can accept the job and, should something  better come along before the start date, withdraw your acceptance and take the better job, but I don't think you can avoid burning a bridge if you do it, no matter how apologetic your may be.  And even if another offer does come along, there's certainly no guarantee that it will be, by definition, better than the offer you have.  I'd take the job and see what happens. 

Paul W. Barada

The Negotiation Expert

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