Dearest all consider
That this is a zoo. There are certain animals in the zoo that are considered dangerous. Some of them are beautiful. Some of them are rare. Some of them are so ugly they fascinate us. In all cases though they are kept behind walls and bars. We are cautioned not to feed them; not to put our hands in the cages or tap on the glass.
Can I suggest to all of us - don't feed the beasts. Soon, with the lack of attention (food) they will slink back to their caves and we shall see the last of them.
But what if they dont slink away ? One in particular just keeps coming out for more with more inaneness (I know that isnt a word but its the closest I could think of)
They will go when they are no longer fed. When they are no longer receiving attention. No longer getting any hits to their threads, no longer getting any attention, no responses, no nothing -- they will go.
Likely they might change their screen name. But you know what they say a leopard can't change its spots. They will be quickly found out.
So don't feed the animals.
Does what you say mean YOU also?
Or, are you the very center of the vast design of things?
dp
If you believe the description fits than you should not respond to me. You should not enter discussions that I start. You should put me on your ignore list so that you have no further interactions with me.
That is indeed what I am suggesting.
yeppers and look how well that works for him
on an off note here, I will no longer be posting out here or even coming out to read. Various individuals, one in particular, and no, it isn't X, he is actually a great source of humor, but one has made it her mission to bash and disagree and pick apart almost every thread I have replied. Whether I have stated an opinion, stated how I handle things personally in my life, whatever, those words have been twisted and shaped to the point that I don't even recognize them anymore, all so she can change them into what she thinks I said and frankly I am tired of it, I am disgusted by being told to "go elsewhere" for merely stating my own opinion and then being attacked by someone else and responding in kind, and it is all just totally unnecessary and I will not play into it anymore. Constant and relentless attacks are not a part of my life. When individuals out here post asking for advice they should take the advice and deal with it, instead, as in the very case of Mr. X, he chooses to post a question knowing, I believe, full well, that he is only doing so to be able to come back and try and insult the person that was kind enough to reply. In his case I have seen several people, myself included that have given him genuinely good advice and he purposely tears people apart. That is the point that I will insult back but not as in the case of the person I am referring to. I have given genuine opinions based on my life and my outlook and again, they get twisted and turned in such a way that she is then able to use whatever I say for her own little agenda that she seems to have. Plus I haven't seen too much positive things out here, it seems to have turned into all negative and whining and flat out misery and I am not miserable in the least. In order for me to stay positive I can no longer afford to read all the negativity and nit picking that truly wears a soul down after time. And for the most part I have seen little encouragement or happiness for anyone's successes, instead, if someone is happy with their life, they are then ridiculed and almost made to feel like they are supposed to feel badly that they have any happiness in their lives. Again, I am too busy with my fairly new job, social events and just my new life here in AZ in general to waste anymore time or energy defending my every word, in most cases little jokes that have been made into a hill ! I wish everyone the best, well almost :) - and take care !
Sue A
Ah don't do that . Your contributions are great and you just need to ignore the trolls. I do. I have been posting for years. I just let the bull go and stick with the interesting people. But if I can't convince you to do that I hope that you might stay in touch.
this is one of my blind accounts: balked-32710@mypacks.net
Once you e-mail me at the blind account I will let you through. I never post my real e-mail here, to many stalkers, trolls and otherwise undesirables.
Thanks for that and for the email addy. I just sent you an email to get through to ya
I might be back someday but for now it is just best for myself that I dont get my every word attacked and misconstrued.
Have a great day !